Wednesday, December 5, 2012

A Little Bite of the Big Apple!

 We were fortunate enough to take a weekend trip to New York City over Thanksgiving weekend.  It was a mellow trip in light of the difficult week before, but it also provided a chance to be together as a family--as a mother, I have always enjoyed having my family "confined" together in a small space--for a short time anyway.




My previous visits to NYC have been during the summer months--it is a whole new, unique experience to be there in the cold, but especially during the festivities of the holidays! We missed the lighting of the tree at Rockefeller Center by a day, but we got to enjoy the unlit tree anyway.




It was a weekend of window shopping which was an experience in and of itself. So ladies, cropped pants, bright shoes and the need to lose twenty pounds seems to be the style of the season. And once again--didn't see any "butt bling" in the fashion capital of the U.S.


Not that fashion was a big issue, because all we cared about was a hat, gloves, scarf and warm coat--the city that never sleeps at night is still very, very cold!

Everywhere you looked the decorations were bright, cheery and lit up the skies!


Even the building were "alive" with good cheer!



My sister, Cathy, gave me the heads up on going to Bryant Park for their over-the-top delicious, to die for Belgian Waffles--we discovered the hot chocolate on our own. For a few minutes I felt like I had stepped into my Christmas village. The music, the decorations, the cold and the cheer were magical!


From "magical" we walked ten blocks south to the "miracle on 34th Street"--Macys! It is huge! I guess that is why it is the  "world's largest department store"! The very old escalators were fascinating--Jake had a little shopping overkill--oh well, future accommodating husband in training!

And the windows...oh the windows...I felt like a little girl again!



The sheets alone cost $600--didn't even try to figure out what the entire ensemble was worth.  I took a picture to help me remember what I would buy if I ever found myself "bedridden!"



Date Night--they have been few and far between the past couple months so when we do find ourselves in the same town we really, really appreciate it!


We all got to to celebrate Jacob's 15th birthday--he got to choose where we ate--but Katelyn helped guide him! 


Katelyn was our guide as she filled us in on who was who, who was singing what and which classic records she also owned!





No trip to New York is complete without a trip down the Great White Way! Steve and I saw "Evita" with Ricky Martin. We had great seats very close to the front--I always love it when you know the words to all the songs!




We also spent the big bucks and went to "The Book of Mormon" it was raunchy, irreverent and had a very sweet story. I am glad we saw it. It did what Matt Stone and Trey Parker, the creators of South Park do best--hits you right between the eyes with truth wrapped up in some very funny lines. There is a reason is has remained so popular, because it speaks to everyone who has ever "believed," no matter what the religion. Not to mention incredible music and dancing.



Katelyn and Jake saw Spiderman. Sitting in the front row, Jacob said he got spit on by Spiderman during the show--he called it "sitting in the splash zone!"


It was slightly unsettling to hear that a man was killed in this very station on this very train just a few days after we were there. Always, always stand behind the yellow line!


As always, my favorite part of visiting any city is our "walk-about!" Just walking with no where to go, wandering in and out of shops, seeing where people actually live, checking out the dog-walkers, eating in small out of the way crepe shops, watching kids play on school grounds, watching students at NYU and pretending for a few minutes that I am just another New Yorker--although I am afraid my Nikon around my neck gives me away!


Last, I will repost what I said on FaceBook,  "I posted last week how I am a "mountain girl" and that is where I find my center. Well I married a "city guy" who often reminds me that he finds his inspiration in concrete and steel. He gets the same rush from the hustle and bustle of urban life that I get from pine trees and starry nights. Skyscraping buildings keep him looking heavenward. This week standing at "Ground Zero," at the 9/11 memorial, I totally got it! It was a reminder of all things sacred--birth, death, rebirth, and the peace that can follow tragedy. What an inspired place of healing!"





After a challenging week, I found myself very reflective. I have felt a tie to this part of New York ever since my first visit there shortly after 9/11 when the gaping hole and gaping wound in the soul of our country was still fresh. Ten years later, the city is healing. There is a feeling of peace in this place of so much heartache. I was so touched by the design of the memorial, it is certainly a place where art transcends the tragedy.

Standing in a very long line to get into the memorial I was amazed by the gathering of so many different people from so many different places all bonded together by this experience--it is so important that we occasionally travel, spread our wings and fly above our provincial lives to see that we are still all americans, all sharing in this american experience, all desiring peace--especially after this divisive election season.


Like the Phoenix Bird-a beautiful, new building is rising from the ashes. Seeing this was worth the whole trip!




Thursday, November 22, 2012

We Are Happy Now....

Now that we're together again!!

I don't know if there as ever been a baby that smiles as easy as Charlotte!


Oh yeah, there was one once!



Or maybe Grandpa just has a secret smile formula.


 Uncle Zac with a heavy heart needed a little extra smile today.


This Nana was relieved that Isaac had a common childhood illness and not some exotic Bonehunter's disease!


This was certainly the warmest football game we have had in many years!


Yeah, I got Dave in an action shot in his action football uniform with those action football gloves!





Waiting for the big play--or there goes the big play-not sure which!


 Here comes Trouble, with a capital T!


The cheerleaders--and Luke was not the least bit happy about being sidelined.


It wasn't until I posted this that I realized we "misplaced" Andy--(but Chelsea was there unlike the last family portrait!)


The kids table is all growed up!


Snapchatting--I am worried about this new app!


Everyone plotting their Black Friday, only in this case it started on Thursday....(and after seeing the Instagram pictures of the chaos--I threw the rest of the ads in the fireplace)


Chloe doubles as a pillow and rug!


Heather stepping up a family photographer--she promised not to blog the picture of me she was taking!



We can simply not get enough Charlotte pictures!


And finally, in honor of Thanksgiving, Andy brought his "No-Shave November" to a close!

Happy Thanksgiving to all of our family members who we did not see today. Know that you were  here in our hearts--we have held each other a little closer this week. So many friends and family are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

This is the House that Love Built!


This week Andy and Co. moved into their new clubhouse and oh what a place it is. When we opened the door, the tears just kept coming....I can't even type this without welling up again!
 Even the front door puts a smile on my face. It is perfect--just perfect in every way!


Each little nook, each little cranny just overflows with love and also everyone's favorites!

 Beau smiling brightly in front of  the beautiful, gorgeous, sparkling kitchen....and it is theirs. Their dishwasher to unload, their table to set, their meal to enjoy....and I love that before each meal they toast their great lives!
 A huge backyard, concrete is about to be poured for a patio and barbeque, a garden plot and a lawn to mow!

Kathy, Dane's mom and Dane--"In this very room, there is quite enough love for everyone!"


And the real reason I tear up when I walk through the door is that this home, this Friend's Clubhouse is a lesson to me of the power of a dream, the power of prayer and faith and hope and friendship and the power of good women who want to make a difference. I have shared my heart with these ladies and in deep, late-night conversations we have shared our souls and struggles and hopes. Kathy and Stacy have been surrogate mothers to Andy and love him like he was their own--and in more ways than one he is their own. I have learned to trust more, believe deeper and laugh harder because of this wonderful experience. FriendsClubhouse  is about more than just the adults who attend each day. It has catered to my special needs too!